Fear of failure

Holla friends, how you all are doing , i hope that you all are doing best of yourselves.

Yesterday , i was with my daughter and asking her to study . The many times i ask her to study she ignored me , then finally i just make her sit with me and give her homework to be done .

She starts doing it by herself, then she start crying and ask me to stop her cousin to not do the homework first .

Just because she don’t want to lose ,she wanted to slow down her cousin , she is just 3 year old , at this age only she fear from losing small things.

Then , I politely had a conversation with her that , losing is not always a bad idea , it may help you in doing great in your next attempt. But she doesn’t understand my point as she is too young to understand that enough but then i realise its not just about her , there are lot of people who goes through this fear throughout there life.

Even amaira (my daughter )should not feel that fear, As failure is not always prove your defeat , sometimes it gives you lesson to stand again and fight with your fear.

Well for me , failure is not an impact of someone’s lapses and flaws.

It’s about not giving your 💯 percent.

Mostly, we ourselves quit and hold things just forsake of bust up.

The real meaning of failure is giving up things rather then taking them in a positive Competition.

I myself in my life , leaves things just because of fear of losing things .

But battling this fear is victory.

So here are some tips that may help you guys to overcome this fear of failure:

👉🏻acceptance of thoughts that failure is a part of the process of failure.

👉🏻let out your frustration into good deeds.

👉🏻be brutally honest to yourself , and believe in improvising things.

👉🏻stop ruminating the failure.

👉🏻addressees your mistake during the process.

👉🏻change the approach in next process.

As, we all no that failure is inevitable in life , so don’t stuck just to it , overcome from these challenges and make them advantageous to our success.

Well, one great thing about failure is ” the more successful people are the one who once failed most 🤔.

So be positive and believe in doing things Continuously with determination.