Holla friends, how you all are doing , i hope that you all are doing best of yourselves.
Yesterday , i was with my daughter and asking her to study . The many times i ask her to study she ignored me , then finally i just make her sit with me and give her homework to be done .
She starts doing it by herself, then she start crying and ask me to stop her cousin to not do the homework first .
Just because she don’t want to lose ,she wanted to slow down her cousin , she is just 3 year old , at this age only she fear from losing small things.
Then , I politely had a conversation with her that , losing is not always a bad idea , it may help you in doing great in your next attempt. But she doesn’t understand my point as she is too young to understand that enough but then i realise its not just about her , there are lot of people who goes through this fear throughout there life.
Even amaira (my daughter )should not feel that fear, As failure is not always prove your defeat , sometimes it gives you lesson to stand again and fight with your fear.
Well for me , failure is not an impact of someone’s lapses and flaws.
It’s about not giving your 💯 percent.
Mostly, we ourselves quit and hold things just forsake of bust up.
The real meaning of failure is giving up things rather then taking them in a positive Competition.
I myself in my life , leaves things just because of fear of losing things .
But battling this fear is victory.
So here are some tips that may help you guys to overcome this fear of failure:
👉🏻acceptance of thoughts that failure is a part of the process of failure.
👉🏻let out your frustration into good deeds.
👉🏻be brutally honest to yourself , and believe in improvising things.
👉🏻stop ruminating the failure.
👉🏻addressees your mistake during the process.
👉🏻change the approach in next process.
As, we all no that failure is inevitable in life , so don’t stuck just to it , overcome from these challenges and make them advantageous to our success.
Well, one great thing about failure is ” the more successful people are the one who once failed most 🤔.
So be positive and believe in doing things Continuously with determination.